(WARNING: Some tough love coming.)
No one is coming to save you.
No government. No politician. No CEO. No higher power. No friends. No family. Nobody is coming to save you. It is up to you.
Your successes. Your failures. Your happiness. 100% your responsibility. Nobody else's.
If you are not where you need to be, where you want to be, take charge and act. Stop making excuses. Stop waiting.